There are many changes to your life and daily activities when you transition from married to being single. Some of the obvious ones are:
Buying your own vehicle
Finding your New Normal
But recently I have been made aware that I am truly enjoying my singleness.
I can get up and go when I choose to.
I don't have to be 'on call' for someone that is not 'on call' for me.
If I want to have lunch with a friend, the only person I have to check with is my bank account.
I can make so many choices on my own!
Some of my recent triumphs are:
I did my tax return myself for free online and only asked my dad (a retired accountant) a couple of questions. That was a true triumph for me since I had only once before (2004 I believe) filed my taxes alone.
I took a chance and ventured out alone today to drive to work with icy road conditions and said many prayers as I traveled my normal 45 minute commute. I made it to work without sliding off the road!
I stood up to someone yesterday who offended me and they actually backed off and apologized. I usually just grumble quietly and let them make me angry.
I am not a feminist and I do believe God has a plan for single people as well as married people in his Kingdom.
But I am thoroughly celebrating every triumph I have and being thankful because I know it is not through my strength that these things occur, they occur because God is blessing me and sending me a way to make them happen.
What ways can you celebrate your triumphs? I look forward to seeing your comments and please keep sharing the blog with anyone you think it will benefit.
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